When my Intersex status was realized at the age of 15, for me it is a condition know as Klinefelters, my parents left decisions of my body up to me.  They never forced me, or even suggested that I should or should not do something.  I feel fortunate to have been able to make decisions for myself.  But many thousands of children were forced into surgery under the guise of it being medically required.

My Intersex status has caused me anxieties all of my life, from how I look, to how I act, even to whether I deserve anything good.  But they no longer control my life.  I wish to show others that there is a way through, that people are not alone.

I hope to be here as a guide for those who are wanting to find their place in this life.  I feel that I am living in a place of privilege, where I have learned to fell the walls that have kept me from being confident, and finding successes.

I don’t write this blog because I wish to have acceptance from others.  I accept myself, and I know I have friends as well as my very supportive wife, who accepts me for being a good person.  They accept me how I am, who I am, and who I have yet to become.